Sunday, August 20, 2006

When to marry??

I have been willing to write it for a while now and everytime thought mebbe its not so important. But i believe it has been kinda leaked (women can't keep things to themselves), so before it spreads like wild fire ;-), the story goes as follows:

Last month, I attended Daniel (from SCR, best employee winner) & Lena Wedding at Heidelberg. It was my first time attending a German Wedding and hence I was looking forward for it and was also looking forward to meet some old friends from SCR (Christoph, Marcela, Jens, Kaz n others). 

I arrived there (Molkenkur at heidelberg castle) around late afternoon, all in sweat, it was an extremely hot and humid day. After getting fresh, I was set to exprience a wonder evening. I met few friends, some chit chat, evening snacks.

After, mebbe 2 hours or so, Lena (the bride) asked everyone for a family n friends picture, so everyone gathered around the entrance to hall, to stress the main point here - I was standing almost at the last step - almost at the end (as you can see from the pic below) - only a few more late commers behind me ;)

The photographer taking few shots, readjusting n so on. I was busy taking some shot for myself too from the back. I was kinda in my own world of snapping pics. During the same time, (i realized this later on) Lena was adjusting the group, asking or telling something and somehow older or married people were no longer in group. And then she threw the bouquet and it hit the groom's father. Which offcourse is kinda not valid as per the tradition.

So you see everything is going, and probably any dumb person can understand it too, but i am still busy with my shots, actually i have several shots of her adjusting, & throwing (on flickr).

I am still at the same position, almost at the end. Then she throws it again and this time, BAMM!! .. it hits me (i am still trying to take a shot) and unintentionally i pick the bouquet and try to give it back. But it was TOO LATE. And suddenly everyone starts clapping n cheering n laughing (see pic below). And I was like, ME, ME, please i don't want so much attention (being probably the only non-german there). I had no clue what to do. So I just stood there and enjoyed the moment. But probably the unmarried girls must have cursed me ;))

Now, the BIG tradition rule - I will, or I should, or I must, or I think, - will be getting married within a year. And everyone came up to me, congratulated me and told me the tradition so many times that I can't forget it anymore.

But as i believed or heard, the bouquet is meant only for unmarried women. But Daniel cleared the doubt by saying in his speech that they have changed the rule for me :)) (Thanks Daniel n Lena)

Here is the ref. pic and you can pretty much see the sequence which i told above:


But not thinking too much - marriage in 1 year *sweating* - I truely enjoyed the moment and was quite entertaining for everyone too :).

Rest in short - it was a great great wedding and i enjoyed myself a lot and best wishes for daniel n lena.

But, the marriage story doesn't end here ....

On the following weekend, i was talking to my mom and was telling her about the wedding & and the bouquet story and marriage in 1 year. Suddenly she interupted and said - "I have something to tell you too".

She said - "I went to a guru or palm reader or astrolger, and showed my birth chart (its a chart made from my place, time & date of birth & shows stars n some stuff like that. And he said that your younger son would be getting married within a year"

As soon as i heard that - i was like WHAT!! REALLY!! Noooooo WAY!!

So both events happened pretty much at the same time in 2 different parts of the world - which pointed to the fact that - marriage in 1 year.

I am not a big believer in all these things but one can't deny them too :-))

One last question remains - TO WHOM??

4 comments:

Anonymous said...

Hey Mo i thoroughly enjoyed this ...you could be a great writer dear :) finally u learnt it from me....hahahahai wish the bouqet had hit me ;) ....Bindia

Brad said...

>> TO WHOM??

Well, if you're looking to meet people in Munich who you can guarantee that you'll be able to converse with at least (a start!) I can recommend the Toytown events. I met some extremely cool people (ladies too!) playing
ultimate frisbee with that group

Your Graceness said...

let's put a personal ad for you out in the newspaper and use that bollywood picture. ;)

Mo. said...

thanks all for your constructive comments :-))
we are all waiting for that great moment!! ;))
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